Rational Expectations
"If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day. If you teach a man to fish, you feed him for a lifetime." ~ Anonymous
While database engineers (and administrators) want to be helpful and answer questions, you should not expect your database engineer to:
- Make “the database” work the way you think it works.
- Teach you how to use Google to answer what a particular SQL error means.
- Magically make database contention go away.